gone country

Posted in: country, girls, Grandpa, husband, life, sister, twins
Con­fes­sion; I like coun­try music.  The sap­pier the bet­ter.  I don’t know why but I like to make myself teary with a song.  I’m also this way with com­mer­cials but the really good, sappy ones are so few and far between these days.  I have no good friend that sits on this coun­try bench with me and even my clos­est will gig­gle at such a state­ment.

Eliz­a­beth over at Clar­ity in the Chaos just recently posted a video of one her favorite songs (hers is a Ben Folds song, much cooler than coun­try, check it out here.)  It got me think­ing about songs and words and how a lot of my favorites are of the coun­try genre.  Sorry Dave Matthews, I love you, really I do.  Really.  But these songs just do it a lit­tle dif­fer­ent for me.  A small sam­pling of sap cour­tesy of moi…

Only A Dream by Mary Chapin Car­pen­ter… makes me think of my lit­tle sis­ter.  She is six years younger than I am.  We’ve always been in dif­fer­ent phases of our lives.  I’ve always felt like I could be a bet­ter sis­ter but we don’t do well talk­ing about our feel­ings in our fam­ily.  I remem­ber catch­ing a glimpse of her face in the hall­way as I loaded up the last of my things, head­ing to col­lege.  She looked so con­fused, not sure what her life would bring with­out me in the next room.  I didn’t know what to say then and I don’t usu­ally know what to say now.  Maybe I should stick with it was all just a dream.

To Make You Feel My Love, Garth Brooks ver­sion… hon­estly noth­ing beats the Adele ver­sion, IMOBut it only makes me teary when I hear Garth sing it.  The words are beau­ti­ful but have lit­tle to do with why it gets me.  It reminds of the scene in Hope Floats where she’s danc­ing with her Daddy and for a moment he seems to make a con­nec­tion with her and it’s exactly what she needs to find her bal­ance.  And THAT reminds me of my Grandpa John.  My Evan is named after him.  He meant that much to me.

The Good Stuff by Kenny Ches­ney… my hus­band and I were danc­ing to this when he asked me to marry him.  I don’t even think that’s how he planned it, it just hap­pened to come on — although I do think every­thing hap­pens for a  rea­son.  This was kind of our theme song.  We have that love, we are mak­ing that his­tory.  Nei­ther of us can keep from grin­ning if we hap­pen to catch it on the radio.

You’re Gonna Miss This by Trace Adkins… I mean really, this is me, this is my fear, this is my life fly­ing before my eyes.  And some days (I pray it’s not most days) I can’t keep from wish­ing for the next thing to hap­pen.  I can’t wait to see what hap­pens next to my chil­dren or my fam­ily, and by next I mean in 10 years, 20 years.  On those days I miss it, I miss life.  On those days it’s worth a tear or two and this song makes it hap­pen every time.

Wish For You by Faith Hill… I heard this even before I had two girls and I loved it.  Now I hear it and I have two girls and I cry.  A sweet lul­laby I can only imag­ine Faith her­self sings for her girls.  I could write this down in a card and seal it away for when my girls are older.  LOVE.

Please don’t think less of me for my coun­try in the closet love.  Its just songs with words set to music, they just have a lit­tle twang every once in awhile.  No harm in twang, right?  Right?
 

**Dis­claimer: I really do have more non-​​country music on my iTunes than coun­try.  Promise.  Don’t judge.
**Dis­claimer part deux: I tried to link you up in this post, just in case, you wanted to hear, see, read what the hell I was mam­mer­ing on and on about.  Hugs.
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6 Responses to gone country

  • Emily Morris

    Replied on: July 25, 2011, 7:16 AM

    I LOVE coun­try music (and Dave Matthews too, really :-) . My tear jerker is Tim McGraw, Don’t Take the Girl. UGH! Heart wrench­ing, ugly cry­ing goes on when I hear that song.

    ps. I also love Jack Johnson

  • LizW

    Replied on: July 23, 2011, 12:48 PM

    Jam — Lis­ten­ing to a coun­try mix in my car — you are not alone! B loves coun­try too. xx

  • molly

    Replied on: July 22, 2011, 2:45 PM

    Ha is right! Very ironic! Now we have new set lists to work with at our next get together!! xoxo

  • Jamie

    Replied on: July 22, 2011, 1:10 PM

    molly… I remem­ber Joey and his cow­boy boots but then always thought that when he met the hemp-​​wearing neck­lace love of his life that he moved on. I love that you are my per­son and I still get to find out new things about you!! Iron­i­cally I put the Faith Hill song on the recent CD I sent you but took it off at the last minute because I didn’t think you’d like the coun­try end­ing! HAXOXO

  • molly

    Replied on: July 22, 2011, 9:55 AM

    You DO have a friend on the coun­try bench! I love all those songs too (except haven’t heard the Faith Hill one-​​will have to give it a listen!).Joe and I lis­tened to coun­try all the time when we first started dating-​​he got me hooked. How did we not know this about each other?! :)

  • Elizabeth @claritychaos

    Replied on: July 21, 2011, 11:31 PM

    Now coun­try is one genre about which I know noth­ing. Maybe I’ll have to check out your favorite songs and see what I think. :)

    And today was the first time I heard that Ben Folds song, but I am a fan of his music, for sure.

    Thanks for the link. :)

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